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Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Long Distance Relationship: Does it really work?

Wikihow Steps

1. The important questions at the onset, to make sure you are both clear on the parameters of the relationship. Setting parameters such as naming your relationship (dating, seeing each other, boyfriend-girlfriend, engaged) as well as defining exclusive (limited to one person,) or non-exclusive. These can be difficult and awkward questions to ask, but will save you great heartache and misunderstanding down the line. Example: "Are you open to the possibility of relocating if the relationship should become more serious?" or "What are you looking to get out of the relationship?" Stating your end goal or ideas will allow each person to maintain what they need.

--- I totally agree. I think its best to have everything in the open, for you to know what to expect out of the relationship and out of each other. Hey, I've done this before and it was really helpful. You just need to have alot of trust towards your partner and to the relationship itself. LDR is not your typical relationship and everything is just hard for it's like everything happens virtually.

2. Consider using Skype video chat calls every day, text messaging, phone calls and email everyday. It is important to maintain contact and to be in each other's daily lives as much as possible.

--- Very true. Of course, how would you learn about each other if there is no stable communication. I used to chat, skype, ym, gmail, meebo, sms and email my ex.

MORE STEPS TO COME....

CRY

I think so too. I think I would prefer seeing someone vulnerable than just being so hard on the outside..It's okay to cry.

Monday, April 11, 2011

Transgender Vs Transexual

Evolution of the term transgender

The term transgender (TG) was popularised in the 1970s^[6] (but implied in the 1960s^[7]^[8]) describing people who wanted to live cross-gender without sex reassignment surgery.^[9] In the 1980s the term was expanded to an umbrella term,^[10] and became popular as a means of uniting all those whose gender identity did not mesh with their gender assigned at birth.^[11]

In the 1990s, the term took on a political dimension^[12]^[13] as an alliance covering all who have at some point not conformed to gender norms, and the term became used to question the validity of those norms^[14] or pursue equal rights and anti-discrimination legislation,^[15]^[16] leading to its widespread usage in the media, academic world and law.^[17] The term continues to evolve.

wiki....

For me, theres no difference. Just be you, be the person that makes you complete, makes you happy for the only thing that we want in life is to be Happy.

Bohol kung mahal...

Bohol is an island province of the Philippines located in the Central Visayas region, consisting of Bohol Island and 75 minor surrounding islands.^[1] Its capital is Tagbilaran City. With a land area of 4,117.3 square kilometers (1,589.7 sq mi) and a coastline 261 kilometers (162 mi) long, Bohol is the tenth largest island of the Philippines.^[2] To the west of Bohol is Cebu, to the northeast is the island of Leyte and to the south, across the Bohol Sea is Mindanao.

The province is a popular tourist destination with its beaches and resorts.^[3] The Chocolate Hills, numerous mounds of limestone formation, is the most popular attraction. Panglao Island, located just southwest of Tagbilaran City, is famous for its diving locations and routinely listed as one of the top ten diving locations in the world. Numerous tourist resorts dot the southern beaches and cater to divers from around the world. The Philippine Tarsier, considered the second-smallest primate in the world, is indigenous to the island.

Boholanos refer to their island homeland as the "Republic of Bohol" with both conviction and pride.^[4] A narrow strait separates the island of Cebu and Bohol and both share a common language, but the Boholanos retain a conscious distinction from the Cebuanos. Bohol's climate is generally dry, with maximum rainfall between the months of June and October. The interior is cooler than the coast.

It is the home province of Carlos P. Garcia, the eighth president of the Republic of the Philippines (1957–1961) who was born in Talibon, Bohol.^[5]

Chocolate hills-- it turns chocolatey in the summer: Your EYES will melt, its not chocolate that will melt in our mouth...

Virgins in Virgin island...

Ding!!! Ang Bato!!!!

Stuff I dream of having....

I was scanning some photos on the web today and found these AWESOME stuff. Well, there's not much to do at work so I was looking at the things I can't afford, but hey there are lots of alternatives out there.